What to do with an alcoholic?
This is a great tragedy for the family and otherspeople, if a number of people who are addicted to alcohol. He is irresponsible, he can be aggressive, he can start stealing. What to do with an alcoholic! This is more a psychological problem than a physical one. Therefore, I will give several examples of psychological effects.
- What to do if the son is an alcoholic. Understand that it is useless to advise anything, your recommendations are not necessary to him, that is, he believes that they are not needed. If he rejects everything you say, stop teaching him!
- What to do to the wife of an alcoholic. Do not try to take away his alcohol, find stash, pour out their contents. This can be done, if only your husband himself asked for it. Never yourself go to the store for alcohol, do not put at home to wander wine or moonshine, do not prepare for it alcoholic cocktails. And, of course, do not drink with him, on holidays, or in any other situation!
- What to do if parents are alcoholics. Do not talk with them about the dangers of alcohol when they are intoxicated. You will not achieve anything by this, they are not ready to take you.
- Neighbor alcoholic. What to do? Remember that he can not lend money or lend a certain thing for use (for example, household appliances, fishing rods, etc.)
Do not let him come to your house drunk and all the more so do not let him drink in your home.
Do not help him in anything if he does not want to help himself. Do not do homework for him, do not bring his purchases on the car, especially do not help him with the work.
- Alcoholic daughter. What to do? Sincerely and openly express your attitude to her alcoholism. Focus on external data, such as aging of the skin, hair loss, terrible smell. Most likely, you will hear excuses in your address, promises and nothing more. But be patient and consistent. Perhaps this will bring its results.
- Father is an alcoholic. What to do? The most popular mistake in this situation: you begin to praise his dignity in a sober manner before other people. This can not be done! You know more than anyone else that all the good that he did is blocked ten times by alcoholism.
Such a disaster can come to any home, with hermust definitely fight! But remember that you are not required to do anything for this patient that you do not want to do. Do not take it useless and helpless. If he is ready to fight the disease, only in this case help. But do only what you think is necessary.