Tyrant husband: you can not forgive forgive

For me, as a coach and consultant in matters of relationships, this topic is one of painful and extensive. On the one hand, if the husband is a tyrant, then the solution is obvious: we must run. On the other hand, if a woman with children has nowhere to run, she cannot provide herself, moreover, she is not local, another lives in the country, for example, what then?
Several times I had the opportunity to work with women in a difficult situation: the husband is a tyrant, but the laws and religion are on his side, my relatives are on the side of my son. The woman is a stranger for the family and for the country, children are common, even not so, they are “state” - you can pack your bags without them.
A woman living with her tyrant husband herself must come to everything - to realize what is happening, to assess the risks and the possible sad outcome, to understand and pull out all her strength, will, all her internal resources and take a step herself. Without persuasion and advice. You have to fall so hard, so painful, to cheer up. So that thoughts become clear, without illusions, and the desire to change your life does not frighten, but immensely attracted. Then ideas come to mind, how to leave, what to say, who to ask for help.One of my clients asked an unfamiliar grandmother on the market to shelter her with a child - there are many responsive people in the world. Good and decent.
Therefore, as long as internally and externally a woman is ready to live in such conditions - she will live. But a sudden desire, albeit very small and cowardly, to stop such humiliation on the part of a man - it will be the beginning of everything.
And the strain will happen when it is needed. Everything in life is timely. And no doubt left after. Only often this very tear is filled with tears and tragedy, when the victims are children, relatives and friends, the woman herself. Then there is no doubt and the decision is made instantly.

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