How to survive the dismissal and make sure the boss regretted it5 733
Dismissal can be compared with the stress that a person receives after a divorce or death of a loved one. Hands down, life becomes meaningless, the future does not exist.
At first, it is difficult to objectively assess the situation, especially to see the benefits of such a situation. The idea that everything that is not done — done for the better — does not even arise. What could be good is that someone has selected a source of income? Someone decided that it was time for you to tie a belt tighter and you are not worth anything in this life. The first desire comes to take revenge, to screw up at last and to do everything so that the authorities can bite their elbows from such a decision.
You need to pull yourself together and leave with dignity. After all, his future life will largely depend on how the dismissed person behaves.
You can go to a steep dive, and not get out of it. And you can crank a great trick and get the winner.No one is immune from anything, especially from the loss of work. Any loss entails a decrease in self-esteem. Giving up your husband means you are unattractive and ugly. Kicked out of work - it means unintelligent and unreliable. Self-esteem slides down with mad power, and resentment is gaining momentum.
- Why was you fired?
- Am I the worst employee?
- Always and all decide for me.
- I am insignificant, unlucky and unlucky.
When such thoughts come to mind, you immediately need to repel them.
Work life did not begin, it will not end. In any situation, you should always look for a positive experience.
Do not complain about the injustice of life, but ask yourself the question: “What did this mean to show life?” Find the answer - go up a step in your development.
Practice proves that most of the work lose two groups of people:
These are the two opposites.
- The first live by inertia, work, because it is necessary, without moral or material satisfaction. He does not quit himself, because he has already scored everything for a long time, does not develop what he likes, does not develop, but just is serving a term, like in prison. And when such a person is dismissed, then life simply by someone else’s lips and actions says that the person has ceased to live, but simply exists, like a plant.
- The second (workaholics) replaced their whole life with work. Work for them, and mother, and wife, and children. At this time, the Ego weakens, a person tries to be comfortable and the best, completely forgetting about his true desires. Life does not know how to joke and endure for a long time, and by dismissal it shows a person that work is not the whole life. This is a frontal attack, so that a person will change his mind. Why is such an employee fired? And what boss wants to hear someone's frequent breathing in his back? We have no irreplaceable, therefore, those who strive to take a place higher are removed.